I often get asked the question, “How do you do it all?” I must admit that between being a full time doctoral student with three jobs and a clinical rotation keeps me pretty busy, and there are days where even I have no idea how I do all that it is I do. I have learned a thing or two about multitasking and time management, so I thought I would pass on some of helpful tips that help me get through each day.

Lesson 1: Never do just one thing at once.

Right now as I write this blog, I have a load of laundry going, three email accounts open, and I am printing articles for a lit review. There is always more than one thing you can be working on.

Lesson 2: No time for friends or relationships.

That’s not to say that you need to completely socially isolate. On the contrary, isolation will only make this process harder. What you will need to learn to do is to get your social needs met when and where you can. The walk to the parking lot after class or the 15 minutes before class at times might be your only time to spend time with your friends and peers, so use this time wisely.

Lesson 3: Work smarter not harder.

One of the most important pieces of advice I could give to any graduate or prospective graduate student is learning the difference between one’s absolute best and the best of your abilities given your resources. I know this is hard for many of you to hear, but stop being such a perfectionist. Learn the minimum you need to do to get by, and try to let that be enough – I know that will take a while for some of you.

Lesson 4: Always have your work with you.

You can never predict when class will be canceled, a client will no show, or any other change in your schedule that leaves you with unexpected free time. Use this time wisely; you will be amazed at how much you can get done in time that would otherwise be wasted.

This list is by no means exhaustive; I must keep some of my tricks secret. Also, doing these things works for me, but they may not work for everyone. Be flexible and creative in surviving grad school.